I think that women who claim some kind of feminist and/or moral position about what we do really need to a) get over themselves, b) get out more, and c) get laid.
That was a little over the top. You appear to be saying that because you're into fan fiction for one reason it's bad for others to posit different ideas, theories even, about why we (collectively, not individually) do what we do. That's nonsense. And (hoping you got my first point) you should be able to work out for yourself where you went wrong in shifting from disparaging ideas to attacking the people who express them.

ETA Also, my bad for not saying: here from metafandom